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As your spouse is preparing for deployment, ask them if there are some specific things you can do to make them feel loved.
If you're a single and feel like you're excluded from functions at your church, take the initiative to develop friendships with married church members. Attend as many functions as you can that don't exclude singles.
It's a given that you'll become angry with your spouse at some point in your marriage. Why, because they might not have lived up to your expectations. The first step in processing anger is to admit that you are angry.
What Does Anger Mean? It means that you feel someone has wronged you. Instead of reacting, take a step back and ask God to help you. More than likely, this will help you avoid exploding.