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If you don't get good results from doing a task but you don't ask for input from someone you trust, you won't improve or grow. You'll always win when you ask for input.
It's deeply hurtful for a husband to tells his wife that she's not attractive. His unkind comments are more than physical - they're emotional. Ask him if he feels loved by you. Learn his love language to connect more deeply with him.
Today's culture tries to influence our our teens in so many arenas. But remember, you as their parent will still have the greatest influence on them.
Reading Dr. Gary Chapman's book "The Five Languages" will invigorate relationships of every kind.
Should you stay in an abusive marriage for the sake of your children? If the abuse is physical or constant verbal abuse, it's best to separate for the protection of yourself and for the good of your children.