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What do you see when you look in the mirror? What you see affects how you live.
Being intimate before marriage is wrong. Ultimately, it's the man who should show leadership by setting boundaries. If he doesn't show leadership in this area, it's probably an indication as to his thinking about other Biblical standards.
What if a couple scores equally on each of the 5 Love Languages? It could that they felt truly loved their entire lives.
Communication is so important in a marriage. Why, because we're not mind readers. If you never share your thoughts, your spouse will never know what you're thinking.