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Do you ever notice that in prayer sometimes you get exactly what you ask for?
What do you do if your wife isn't a talker? Instead of saying "I wish you'd talk more", ask her specific questions that illicit detailed answers. It's easier for her to talk if she's asked a question.
When you're at the end of your rope, only God can give you exactly what you need.
Here's a question for you - do you hug your Child? Your hug might be the difference between emotional security or insecurity. Physical touch is one of your child's most important love languages.