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After a divorce, it's a given that your ex will still be in the picture - your children's birthdays, weddings etc. You'll need to accept the fact that this is a new reality. Be sure to deal constructively with your ex when events together cannot be avoided.
Singleness is not the plague, and pastors need to know that.
The two most important sentences you'll ever learn are, "I made a mistake", and "I was wrong". Healthy families don't require perfection, but they do require the willingness to admit when they do wrong.