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You waste your energy when you argue, trying to convince the other person that you're right and they're wrong. That will never work. Instead, try to find some middle ground where you both can agree.
If communication between spouses is practically nonexistent, make an effort to talk to your spouse about things they're interested in. Often times, they'll begin to open up.
Understand why God sometimes goes as far as to force us to rest.
Have you ever been tempted to change your personality to be liked by someone else?